Who Are You (Step 3)?
“To love one’s self is the beginning of a life-long romance.”
Oscar Wilde
Once you’ve figured out who your fashion icons are, what your essential wardrobe pieces are, and worked on your confidence – you’re well on your way. But you’re not there yet. The most important element to complete you as a stylish confident woman is self-love. True self-love emanates kindness. Kindness is powerful. Stripping down the ego, the first step on the way to self-love, can be a long process. Recognizing the need to strip away the ego is the key to start. Once you start, you will only want more – and so will everyone around you.
Women who lack self-love have a limited amount of love to give. When you can’t give love and support to others, everything you give is a bit tight and you come off as bitchy. The biggest reward for freeing yourself of your ego is humbleness. Being humble is being kind. Review yourself – what’s not to love? Once you fall in love with yourself, the world will also. Humbleness, kindness and self-love are part of the completed groundwork toward becoming the fabulous woman you have in you. (These are qualities that you secretly hated in other women before you had them). Stop hating and start loving – you got it all, you just need to see it and believe it. Adoring oneself is so ridiculously contagious and so fabulously fun that you’ll never go back to your small tight world of resentment…
All you need is love.
Love will give you confidence.
Confidence will define your style.
Your style is what you reflect, all the way around.
The End
